Something about hang out.

[Edison Chen]

Does it need a lot of motivation and interest for a pretty girl to hang out with a guy（not for JBF）, or they would like to go out with an average guy when they are bored？

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Does it need a lot of motivation and interest for a pretty girl to hang out with a guy（not for JBF）, or they would like to go out with an average guy when they are bored？

Huh?

 

[SW15]

Huh?

I agree. Clarification is needed. I think JBF means Just Be Friends.

@Edison Chen is 18. Presumably he's dealing with 16-19 year old women.

Many men have noticed that modern dating even deep into one's 20s and 30s is much like dating in middle/high school as women are governed by their vaginal tingles.

An attractive woman 18-25 is motivated to get sexually and/or romantically involved with a guy who is elite in some way. SMV is a combination of looks, money, status, and persona. For younger men, they often compete on looks if they are able to do that. Persona (aka game techniques) are difficult to develop. Money doesn't have the same effect it once did because provider game is dying. If you have boatloads of money, you can compete on money and attract 18-25 year olds at most ages up until 55-60, but you'll need more money to do that than you would have needed in 1990.

Average men 18-25 don't stand a chance with top tier females. You have to be exceptional in some element of the SMV equation.

 

[Edison Chen]

Actually I am 16.

In fact I didn’t have a talk or approach with that girl when I first saw her in school ,we just have a eye contact,and I thought she was attracted by me ,so I invited her directly and she just accepted.Well am I good looking?I think I am just a little better looking than the average guy，not particularly handsome, but in fact I do attract a lot of girls since I was very young.Maybe a pretty girl’s aesthetic is high demand than other girls，so I was confused whether she was really attracted by me or she think I am a little better than the average and happens there is no other guys she was attracted to,so she would like to hang out with me（ I told her covertly that the purpose of our hanging out was to develop a relationship ）.lol

I agree. Clarification is needed. I think JBF means Just Be Friends.

@Edison Chen is 18. Presumably he's dealing with 16-19 year old women.

Many men have noticed that modern dating even deep into one's 20s and 30s is much like dating in middle/high school as women are governed by their vaginal tingles.

An attractive woman 18-25 is motivated to get sexually and/or romantically involved with a guy who is elite in some way. SMV is a combination of looks, money, status, and persona. For younger men, they often compete on looks if they are able to do that. Persona (aka game techniques) are difficult to develop. Money doesn't have the same effect it once did because provider game is dying. If you have boatloads of money, you can compete on money and attract 18-25 year olds at most ages up until 55-60, but you'll need more money to do that than you would have needed in 1990.

Average men 18-25 don't stand a chance with top tier females. You have to be exceptional in some element of the SMV equation.