"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Mitza

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I know a guy who is High energy, or at least he want to apear as a high energy guy.Every time I meet him he make stupid things, and make fun of others, includind his mother, and others people from his family.He alwasy says about everybody that that pearson is "A loser without money" , but in fact he has no money and he is also in debt.

How do you react when you meet someone like this ?

Today I was close to punch :box: him.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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thefonz

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In my personal experience the most outgoing, center-of attention, class clowns are the most insecure/self-deprivating people you'll ever meet.

I had a friend in high school who would yell at people across the halls, hi-5 the jocks and rag mercilessly on people he didn't like (including teachers....lol) Before I became friends with him I thought he was the bravest kid in the world. But several times later after he made a commotion he confessed to me that he felt so bad about doing that and how everyone hates him now. But he did it ALL THE TIME, and would soon snap out of that and then go back into his class clown self as if he never regreted it, it was so weird. I thought he was just a weirdo but the next year I made another friend who was center-of attention type guy and he would go through the exact same self-depricating cycle......overly extroverted people are insecure in ways manny of us introverts can't understand

Anyway, this guy is completely insecure and feeds of the attention of others. Make him starve to death, it's the worst possible thing you can do to him. Act uneffected by anything he says to you or behind your back and I guaruntee you'll torture him.

EDIT: I don't know if you've ever read "The Game" by Neil Strauss but Mystery in that book is a perfect example of what I'm talking about.
 

Delta

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why would YOU punch him? don't touch him unless he says something about you. if he talks trash about his friends and family, hey, let THEM take care of it. what business is it of yours?

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