"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Mitza

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I know a guy who is High energy, or at least he want to apear as a high energy guy.Every time I meet him he make stupid things, and make fun of others, includind his mother, and others people from his family.He alwasy says about everybody that that pearson is "A loser without money" , but in fact he has no money and he is also in debt.

How do you react when you meet someone like this ?

Today I was close to punch :box: him.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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In my personal experience the most outgoing, center-of attention, class clowns are the most insecure/self-deprivating people you'll ever meet.

I had a friend in high school who would yell at people across the halls, hi-5 the jocks and rag mercilessly on people he didn't like (including teachers....lol) Before I became friends with him I thought he was the bravest kid in the world. But several times later after he made a commotion he confessed to me that he felt so bad about doing that and how everyone hates him now. But he did it ALL THE TIME, and would soon snap out of that and then go back into his class clown self as if he never regreted it, it was so weird. I thought he was just a weirdo but the next year I made another friend who was center-of attention type guy and he would go through the exact same self-depricating cycle......overly extroverted people are insecure in ways manny of us introverts can't understand

Anyway, this guy is completely insecure and feeds of the attention of others. Make him starve to death, it's the worst possible thing you can do to him. Act uneffected by anything he says to you or behind your back and I guaruntee you'll torture him.

EDIT: I don't know if you've ever read "The Game" by Neil Strauss but Mystery in that book is a perfect example of what I'm talking about.
 
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why would YOU punch him? don't touch him unless he says something about you. if he talks trash about his friends and family, hey, let THEM take care of it. what business is it of yours?

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