"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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someone translate some ******** for me.

xomel

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"are there any cute girls at your school?"

"what do you think of HBx?"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"do I have competition and need to try, or do I have you whipped?"

"i wanna make sure you want me the most, and if you do, then YOU can be MY b1tch!"
 

xomel

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skip2mylou781 said:
"i wanna make sure you want me the most, and if you do, then YOU can be MY b1tch!"
what if the particular person is her friend?
 

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you: "Ohh..you're cute, she's cute, her friend's cute, that girl's cute, what the hell do you want me to say:D"
 

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xomel said:
what if the particular person is her friend?
the friend probally has a fan club and she does not want you in it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"are there any cute girls at your school?"
"How much competition do I have?"

"what do you think of HBx?"
She could be trying to figure out what type of women you prefer looks/personality wise.
 

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bigneil said:
She's bisexual.



She slept with HBx.

God dammit bigneil, I was going to say that too. Maybe we are twins separated at birth or something....
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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