"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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someone translate some ******** for me.

xomel

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"are there any cute girls at your school?"

"what do you think of HBx?"
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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skip2mylou781

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"do I have competition and need to try, or do I have you whipped?"

"i wanna make sure you want me the most, and if you do, then YOU can be MY b1tch!"
 

xomel

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skip2mylou781 said:
"i wanna make sure you want me the most, and if you do, then YOU can be MY b1tch!"
what if the particular person is her friend?
 

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you: "Ohh..you're cute, she's cute, her friend's cute, that girl's cute, what the hell do you want me to say:D"
 

penkitten

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xomel said:
what if the particular person is her friend?
the friend probally has a fan club and she does not want you in it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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blinkwatt

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"are there any cute girls at your school?"
"How much competition do I have?"

"what do you think of HBx?"
She could be trying to figure out what type of women you prefer looks/personality wise.
 

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bigneil said:
She's bisexual.



She slept with HBx.

God dammit bigneil, I was going to say that too. Maybe we are twins separated at birth or something....
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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