"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Someone reccomend a good non-sneaker shoe...

st_99

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I need a pair of shoes for just going out on the town. Something
that you would wear with jeans but is not a sneaker and not something you would wear with a suit either..

I am terrible at finding shoes because I think they all look terrible for one reason or another but I'm tired of going out in sneaks...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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depeche101

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I like Docmartens (Dr. Martens.) They come in a range of styles including shoes and boots. With jeans, I wear the standard shoes which are black with yellow stitching. I find them really comfortable. Not overly expensive and you get excellent wear out of them.
 

Ripper

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I have really nice brown loafers and I get complimented on them alot. Go well with jeans or chinos.
 

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What's wrong with a dress shoe and jeans? I've noticed dressing casually (t-shirt, jeans etc) with a nice Kenneth Cole or other fancier dress shoe brings much more attention...if that's what you're going for.
 

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There are a few brands I like with jeans when I wear nicer/dressy button up or polo's rather than my standard t-shirt faire ...

Lugz & Skechers are good "urban" shoes, and as the previous dude said, Doc Martens, although those seem to be played out around here (LA).

If you're wearing jeans, I would totally stay away from loafers and topsiders (but that is just me, wear what suits you and don't apologize for it!)...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I have walmart (yes...of all places) shoes. Kinda looks like a hiking show by colour (so they are brown), but aren't technically hiking shoes. Good all purpose shoe, lots of wicked tread on them, matches the jeans well. Living for a year now ( I eat shoes)
 

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What catches YOUR eye? I personally wear boots in the winter and prefer loafers or boat shoes in the warmer months. I'm a fan of the "Ivy League" look, though, and it suits me well. Look around and find something that suits your style.
 
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