"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Someone reccomend a good non-sneaker shoe...

st_99

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I need a pair of shoes for just going out on the town. Something
that you would wear with jeans but is not a sneaker and not something you would wear with a suit either..

I am terrible at finding shoes because I think they all look terrible for one reason or another but I'm tired of going out in sneaks...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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depeche101

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I like Docmartens (Dr. Martens.) They come in a range of styles including shoes and boots. With jeans, I wear the standard shoes which are black with yellow stitching. I find them really comfortable. Not overly expensive and you get excellent wear out of them.
 

Ripper

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I have really nice brown loafers and I get complimented on them alot. Go well with jeans or chinos.
 

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What's wrong with a dress shoe and jeans? I've noticed dressing casually (t-shirt, jeans etc) with a nice Kenneth Cole or other fancier dress shoe brings much more attention...if that's what you're going for.
 

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There are a few brands I like with jeans when I wear nicer/dressy button up or polo's rather than my standard t-shirt faire ...

Lugz & Skechers are good "urban" shoes, and as the previous dude said, Doc Martens, although those seem to be played out around here (LA).

If you're wearing jeans, I would totally stay away from loafers and topsiders (but that is just me, wear what suits you and don't apologize for it!)...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I have walmart (yes...of all places) shoes. Kinda looks like a hiking show by colour (so they are brown), but aren't technically hiking shoes. Good all purpose shoe, lots of wicked tread on them, matches the jeans well. Living for a year now ( I eat shoes)
 

kyphan

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What catches YOUR eye? I personally wear boots in the winter and prefer loafers or boat shoes in the warmer months. I'm a fan of the "Ivy League" look, though, and it suits me well. Look around and find something that suits your style.
 
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