Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Moronic (not you, whoever put that up). If you know how to use this website properly, you will find that the key to improving with women is simply improving as a person. Building character, strong will, confidence, determination and conviction. You can't teach those things, you need to just figure them out with time and a little push.Naughty Ninja said:
The only thing that entry for "Don Juan Warning" is going to do is either increase traffic here, learning how to actually get replies and numbers, and or have even more dudes spamming the ****e out of chicks on POF itself.TillTheEndOfTime said:
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I already suspected that.Alle_Gory said:
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
It's most likely someone from so suave. Odd coincidence that a few days after i'd originally posted a thread mentioning POFreaks so suave gets posted there. Possibly a recent board favorite trollolol whos been involved in pof threads on here before yet acts like he'll never get a chick. I'll let the rest of you figure out who it could be. I say trololol fail as its not going to stop anyone regardless. Kindof like warning chicks irl to avoid teh playas. Lmao.incognito42 said:
Foreveralone was posted by me. Hahaha! Who cares if chicks on pof don't find me attractive! My parents and friends think im the most handsomest boy in the whole wide world and a great catch to boot!! Lmfao!!Purefilth said:
Who cares what their comments are. Lol. I used to literally tell them on the forums on pof what i was doing in threads. chicks would respond saying they wouldn't respond, the white knights would whine, some dudes started doing the same thing saying it works, mods would delete the thread before too many dudes caught on and i put david deangelos nonsense rendered useless, i'd purposely still copy and pasta forum chicks and theyd STILL respond and id go into normal conversation. Nothing stopped me on there till i got bored and took down my profile. That and loads of whack jobs galore with possible stds. You just have to treat the whole thing as an experiment. If you want get numbers meet up and escalate. The more you don't care about anything or anyone on there the more it actually works.Who Dares Win said:
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You don't need to be like that. You do need to see people for what they are so there are no surprises and you don't get fvcked over.TillTheEndOfTime said:
Hey girls, it's just a pic of me looking well dressed while volunteering in a soup kitchen.Poonani Maker said:
