You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Moronic (not you, whoever put that up). If you know how to use this website properly, you will find that the key to improving with women is simply improving as a person. Building character, strong will, confidence, determination and conviction. You can't teach those things, you need to just figure them out with time and a little push.Naughty Ninja said:
The only thing that entry for "Don Juan Warning" is going to do is either increase traffic here, learning how to actually get replies and numbers, and or have even more dudes spamming the ****e out of chicks on POF itself.TillTheEndOfTime said:
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I already suspected that.Alle_Gory said:
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
It's most likely someone from so suave. Odd coincidence that a few days after i'd originally posted a thread mentioning POFreaks so suave gets posted there. Possibly a recent board favorite trollolol whos been involved in pof threads on here before yet acts like he'll never get a chick. I'll let the rest of you figure out who it could be. I say trololol fail as its not going to stop anyone regardless. Kindof like warning chicks irl to avoid teh playas. Lmao.incognito42 said:
Foreveralone was posted by me. Hahaha! Who cares if chicks on pof don't find me attractive! My parents and friends think im the most handsomest boy in the whole wide world and a great catch to boot!! Lmfao!!Purefilth said:
Who cares what their comments are. Lol. I used to literally tell them on the forums on pof what i was doing in threads. chicks would respond saying they wouldn't respond, the white knights would whine, some dudes started doing the same thing saying it works, mods would delete the thread before too many dudes caught on and i put david deangelos nonsense rendered useless, i'd purposely still copy and pasta forum chicks and theyd STILL respond and id go into normal conversation. Nothing stopped me on there till i got bored and took down my profile. That and loads of whack jobs galore with possible stds. You just have to treat the whole thing as an experiment. If you want get numbers meet up and escalate. The more you don't care about anything or anyone on there the more it actually works.Who Dares Win said:
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You don't need to be like that. You do need to see people for what they are so there are no surprises and you don't get fvcked over.TillTheEndOfTime said:
Hey girls, it's just a pic of me looking well dressed while volunteering in a soup kitchen.Poonani Maker said:
