"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Someone put out my Fire

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Fender

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Heyall,

It's been a while since I've been on this site, as I've been in a happy relationship for the past 2 years. Anyways, due to situational circumstances (we moved to a different country due to University), we broke up.

The problem is, I still Love this girl...but really, I just want to move on. I've been in Uni for a month, and I must've met 300+ girls. But still, they don't do anything for me. They may be beautiful or hot...but I just don't find myself attracted to them. I haven't had a proper hard-on since I got here!

What should I do??? This is the first time I've broken up from such a long relationship...so should I just give it some time?

help!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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KontrollerX

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Yeah give it a little time but in the meanwhile just keep meeting people and talking to chicks.

Eventually your bound to find interest in one of them as the feelings from your past relationship fade.
 
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D!ck Ramsey

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Take it easy. This is a good time for you to just get your bearings and focus on yourself. The hotties will not be going anywhere
 
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Interceptor

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Yeah, what D!ck said.
Dude, don't be in a hurry to jump into something.

Have fun,man. Fun? Remember that? You DO know what that is, right?

Experience life. Read, study, learn, enjoy, laugh, and play.
You can bet your ass your ex is going out buck wild non stop. Why shoudln't you?
how about you brush up on your DJ skills?
How about you work on putting on some quality mass at the gym?
How about you take up Boxing or MMA or something?
how about you take some chick out to picnic, with no expectations?

Have fun.
 
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