"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Someone put out my Fire

Fender

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Heyall,

It's been a while since I've been on this site, as I've been in a happy relationship for the past 2 years. Anyways, due to situational circumstances (we moved to a different country due to University), we broke up.

The problem is, I still Love this girl...but really, I just want to move on. I've been in Uni for a month, and I must've met 300+ girls. But still, they don't do anything for me. They may be beautiful or hot...but I just don't find myself attracted to them. I haven't had a proper hard-on since I got here!

What should I do??? This is the first time I've broken up from such a long relationship...so should I just give it some time?

help!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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KontrollerX

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Yeah give it a little time but in the meanwhile just keep meeting people and talking to chicks.

Eventually your bound to find interest in one of them as the feelings from your past relationship fade.
 

D!ck Ramsey

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Take it easy. This is a good time for you to just get your bearings and focus on yourself. The hotties will not be going anywhere
 

Interceptor

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Yeah, what D!ck said.
Dude, don't be in a hurry to jump into something.

Have fun,man. Fun? Remember that? You DO know what that is, right?

Experience life. Read, study, learn, enjoy, laugh, and play.
You can bet your ass your ex is going out buck wild non stop. Why shoudln't you?
how about you brush up on your DJ skills?
How about you work on putting on some quality mass at the gym?
How about you take up Boxing or MMA or something?
how about you take some chick out to picnic, with no expectations?

Have fun.
 
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