"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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someone kick me in the ass

kiz

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i've been sort of trying to game this one girl for a long time now and have been half assing it the whole way out. i can initiate even heavy kino with girls i dont really like but i'm just trying to get with, but when i'm serious about it i wuss out. i've got some light kino going with her but nothing else. im pretty sure the IL is atleast medium now but it was higher and i'm sure a lot of that loss was due to my inability to act.


my question to you guy is that after all this light kino, would it be too much to kick it into high gear after so long of just light neglible kino. i want to show more interest but for some reason im *****ing out. B]someone kick me in the ass to get rid of this AFCness!!![/B]
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Michael Chief

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Originally posted by kiz
would it be too much to kick it into high gear after so long of just light neglible kino.
I think it would. She'd sense that you want something out of her, therefore making her put her defenses up - and that would push her away.
 

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I take it youre running game in school, always. She is used to youre game in school - so you cant change it there unless she has high interest. But just hang out with her, and anythings fair game.
 

Alpha_Animal

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Originally posted by kiz
my question to you guy is that after all this light kino, would it be too much to kick it into high gear after so long of just light neglible kino. i want to show more interest but for some reason im *****ing out. B]someone kick me in the ass to get rid of this AFCness!!! [/B]
Depends whether you think its too much to kick it into high gear. Girls are followers, the dominated. They are like stones you position them how you want and they stay that way. That is the attitude you should have.
 
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