"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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someone kick me in the ass

kiz

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i've been sort of trying to game this one girl for a long time now and have been half assing it the whole way out. i can initiate even heavy kino with girls i dont really like but i'm just trying to get with, but when i'm serious about it i wuss out. i've got some light kino going with her but nothing else. im pretty sure the IL is atleast medium now but it was higher and i'm sure a lot of that loss was due to my inability to act.


my question to you guy is that after all this light kino, would it be too much to kick it into high gear after so long of just light neglible kino. i want to show more interest but for some reason im *****ing out. B]someone kick me in the ass to get rid of this AFCness!!![/B]
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Michael Chief

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Originally posted by kiz
would it be too much to kick it into high gear after so long of just light neglible kino.
I think it would. She'd sense that you want something out of her, therefore making her put her defenses up - and that would push her away.
 

TonyTheTigerOI

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I take it youre running game in school, always. She is used to youre game in school - so you cant change it there unless she has high interest. But just hang out with her, and anythings fair game.
 

Alpha_Animal

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Originally posted by kiz
my question to you guy is that after all this light kino, would it be too much to kick it into high gear after so long of just light neglible kino. i want to show more interest but for some reason im *****ing out. B]someone kick me in the ass to get rid of this AFCness!!! [/B]
Depends whether you think its too much to kick it into high gear. Girls are followers, the dominated. They are like stones you position them how you want and they stay that way. That is the attitude you should have.
 
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