"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Someone do the math for me please

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What´s going on guys? Is there really such a big difference between male and female population, or is other thing going on.

All clubs, are over populated with males, it´s simply painful to go out these days. Once in a blue moon, you will have a ratio 1:1....

More over, it seems that there are a lot more single guys than girls. I just see girls changing boyfriend, and getting married having had 5 boyfriends at least... while most guys have very few girlfriends.

Now I simply stopped chasing women, it´s the only way to stand out, when each of them has 10 pursuers.... (I just went on facebook to give happy birthday to a friend of mine, and the quantity of males going there is ridiculous.)

Instead of chasing women, I just behave like an arrogant, ****y bastard, no returning on phone calls, flaking dates, telling almost directly they don´t have any chance with me, and this seems to go very well with their twisted minds.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It's really pretty simple. The places guys go to find a girl (bars, clubs, etc) are not the places girls go to find guys (if they even look for guys in the first place). So it gets over saturated with guys looking for girls.

That is why day game is so important.

I don't really agree with that statement that girls have so many boyfriends before getting married and guys don't have that many girlfriends. It may be like that in your social circle, but I don't see that being the norm. I know plenty of guys who have had a very high number of girlfriends. Even the ones who claim they can't get a girl have had 6-7 girlfriends.
 

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Which day game venues do you recommend or have tried?

PDubb75 said:
It's really pretty simple. The places guys go to find a girl (bars, clubs, etc) are not the places girls go to find guys (if they even look for guys in the first place). So it gets over saturated with guys looking for girls.

That is why day game is so important.

I don't really agree with that statement that girls have so many boyfriends before getting married and guys don't have that many girlfriends. It may be like that in your social circle, but I don't see that being the norm. I know plenty of guys who have had a very high number of girlfriends. Even the ones who claim they can't get a girl have had 6-7 girlfriends.
 

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Mike32ct said:
Which day game venues do you recommend or have tried?

Well... anywhere.

Mall, grocery store, coffee shop, book store, restaurant, on the street, park, gym, local bars on a slow night (not Friday or Saturday), ANYWHERE...

The mall had been my go-to, but it's not always the easiest there. I just liked the fact that the ratio issue is the complete opposite at the mall.

People seem to find coffee shops to be a gold mine. I don't drink coffee, so I haven't really tried that out myself.

The whole point is that you can and should approach anywhere and everywhere you see someone you are interested in.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Remain indifferent and confident. Then they will come.

In other words, if you hold your head up, act like you really don't care much and act like you are the man, ,they'll be all over you.

My many years has taught me this to be true.
 

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What makes something or someone valuable? Scarcity, the harder it is to get it, the more value it has in your eyes. Its not that women are crazy for wanting men who don't want them, its actually perfectly normal.
When you go to a strip club and women start chasing you, you'll understand how women feel. specially when you start working for the attention of the one hot stripper who's not chasing for customers.
 
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