"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Someone do the math for me please

JdelaSilviera

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What´s going on guys? Is there really such a big difference between male and female population, or is other thing going on.

All clubs, are over populated with males, it´s simply painful to go out these days. Once in a blue moon, you will have a ratio 1:1....

More over, it seems that there are a lot more single guys than girls. I just see girls changing boyfriend, and getting married having had 5 boyfriends at least... while most guys have very few girlfriends.

Now I simply stopped chasing women, it´s the only way to stand out, when each of them has 10 pursuers.... (I just went on facebook to give happy birthday to a friend of mine, and the quantity of males going there is ridiculous.)

Instead of chasing women, I just behave like an arrogant, ****y bastard, no returning on phone calls, flaking dates, telling almost directly they don´t have any chance with me, and this seems to go very well with their twisted minds.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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It's really pretty simple. The places guys go to find a girl (bars, clubs, etc) are not the places girls go to find guys (if they even look for guys in the first place). So it gets over saturated with guys looking for girls.

That is why day game is so important.

I don't really agree with that statement that girls have so many boyfriends before getting married and guys don't have that many girlfriends. It may be like that in your social circle, but I don't see that being the norm. I know plenty of guys who have had a very high number of girlfriends. Even the ones who claim they can't get a girl have had 6-7 girlfriends.
 

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Which day game venues do you recommend or have tried?

PDubb75 said:
It's really pretty simple. The places guys go to find a girl (bars, clubs, etc) are not the places girls go to find guys (if they even look for guys in the first place). So it gets over saturated with guys looking for girls.

That is why day game is so important.

I don't really agree with that statement that girls have so many boyfriends before getting married and guys don't have that many girlfriends. It may be like that in your social circle, but I don't see that being the norm. I know plenty of guys who have had a very high number of girlfriends. Even the ones who claim they can't get a girl have had 6-7 girlfriends.
 

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Mike32ct said:
Which day game venues do you recommend or have tried?

Well... anywhere.

Mall, grocery store, coffee shop, book store, restaurant, on the street, park, gym, local bars on a slow night (not Friday or Saturday), ANYWHERE...

The mall had been my go-to, but it's not always the easiest there. I just liked the fact that the ratio issue is the complete opposite at the mall.

People seem to find coffee shops to be a gold mine. I don't drink coffee, so I haven't really tried that out myself.

The whole point is that you can and should approach anywhere and everywhere you see someone you are interested in.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Remain indifferent and confident. Then they will come.

In other words, if you hold your head up, act like you really don't care much and act like you are the man, ,they'll be all over you.

My many years has taught me this to be true.
 

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What makes something or someone valuable? Scarcity, the harder it is to get it, the more value it has in your eyes. Its not that women are crazy for wanting men who don't want them, its actually perfectly normal.
When you go to a strip club and women start chasing you, you'll understand how women feel. specially when you start working for the attention of the one hot stripper who's not chasing for customers.
 
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