"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=101004&highlight=pook

This was a thread made by KillaPetehog, and personally, I think its one of the the posts on this site written on the subject of women. When I have gotten women and didn't get them, I feel as though I did play something right. But I also can see there's other guys out there who could do the same thing I can do, and maybe better. Guys I am posting this because I want to know more about GAME, as Killa talks about. Because as I have posted a while here, I succeed and fail with women and I have not a god damn clue what I did right and what I did wrong. When you know what to do you can wake up and just do it and keep getting results. When you don't, you are depending on fate again and me and fate are not the best of friends.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well, you've discovered that you have a problem, now all you need to do is figure out the cause of it. Scrutinize and self-criticize. If you won't be your worst critic, you can't rely on yourself to improve. See things from all the perspectives possible.

-Damian

"Fate is a fallacy conjured up by the weak so they can have something to blame."
 

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Well there are three things you have to worry about when you are worrying about game.

You've got to look to your future. Your new techniques, your new mannerisms, your new mindsets. Look to the future, and ask yourself whether women are seeing a man who is changing, or a man who knows that change is inevitable.

Look to your past, what has changed, and what have you chosen to ignore. Even as a child there are actions you choose not to take because of fear. Things like pausing to remember the past when you should be in the present are tells of a man who has not grasped reality.

Look at the present, are you in the moment, are you displaying a life where you are in the NOW?

You could start writing field reports as well, posting the nastiest encounters is probably the best. Go beyond your boundaries and you will get very good impressions of what you are lacking in. Cover nothing with your ego when you post, nobody here cares if you lie, so in other words, don't lie.
 
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