"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=101004&highlight=pook

This was a thread made by KillaPetehog, and personally, I think its one of the the posts on this site written on the subject of women. When I have gotten women and didn't get them, I feel as though I did play something right. But I also can see there's other guys out there who could do the same thing I can do, and maybe better. Guys I am posting this because I want to know more about GAME, as Killa talks about. Because as I have posted a while here, I succeed and fail with women and I have not a god damn clue what I did right and what I did wrong. When you know what to do you can wake up and just do it and keep getting results. When you don't, you are depending on fate again and me and fate are not the best of friends.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Well, you've discovered that you have a problem, now all you need to do is figure out the cause of it. Scrutinize and self-criticize. If you won't be your worst critic, you can't rely on yourself to improve. See things from all the perspectives possible.

-Damian

"Fate is a fallacy conjured up by the weak so they can have something to blame."
 

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Well there are three things you have to worry about when you are worrying about game.

You've got to look to your future. Your new techniques, your new mannerisms, your new mindsets. Look to the future, and ask yourself whether women are seeing a man who is changing, or a man who knows that change is inevitable.

Look to your past, what has changed, and what have you chosen to ignore. Even as a child there are actions you choose not to take because of fear. Things like pausing to remember the past when you should be in the present are tells of a man who has not grasped reality.

Look at the present, are you in the moment, are you displaying a life where you are in the NOW?

You could start writing field reports as well, posting the nastiest encounters is probably the best. Go beyond your boundaries and you will get very good impressions of what you are lacking in. Cover nothing with your ego when you post, nobody here cares if you lie, so in other words, don't lie.
 
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