Someone actually tried hitting on me today!!!

[evolvingnerd]

for the first time, a chick actually tried hitting on me
and a fking hot one at that

now of course, i didn't know it at all. we were waiting in line (i've seen her around before) and some dude was making announcements, and then she turned around and said did he just say that? i said yeah, and she said "yay!". of course i just remained silent (i was midway through reading something) and i just continued on my thing

now, a while later, she saw me talking to one of my social proof friends (another hottie)

what do yuo reckon is the situation here?
after i ignored her, would she think i'm a ****?
or would i have just come across as disinterested? and what was the affect of her seeing me with another girl?

*i just wanna learn this sortta knowledge, so later i can bend a situation to my favour

cheers

 

[Eggchen]

What is happening to this forum lately.

 

[Sardaukar]

Did she grab your balls??

Oh and your introvert attitude must have been such a turn on for her. When you gave her a one word answer and ignored her, she thought you were so mysterious and strong that she was almost bursting with cream.

 

[Jariel]

Ok, I wouldn't exactly call this hitting on you, but she tried to break the ice and that's often a sign of interest.

The fact that you didn't take the opportunity to speak to her killed your chances in an instant. Simply put, you should have talked to her, and this goes for any woman who asks you a question.

 

[evolvingnerd]

lol
guess i deserved that one eh Sardaukar

but as i said, this was a first for me
hopefully next time i'll realise what's happening, and do something abot it

 

[squirrels]

She didn't "hit on you."

She gave you an opening because she found you attractive somehow, physically or otherwise. You failed to take advantage of it.

Doesn't matter why to her. You could be a d!ck. You could be just absorbed in what you were doing. You could not like her for some reason. The bottom line is she gave you an opening and you declined it.

Are you happy with that decision? If so, there's nothing more to talk about.

 

[B9]

As I was getting on the bus yesterday, it was really crowded and some woman bumbed into me and said 'sorry'.

I can't help thinking I could have taken her to bed there and then if only I had followed up on this blatant flirtatious pick-up attempt! She was really interested in me, wasn't she??? I totally blew it.

 

[Life-Trainee]

Originally posted by B9
As I was getting on the bus yesterday, it was really crowded and some woman bumbed into me and said 'sorry'.

I can't help thinking I could have taken her to bed there and then if only I had followed up on this blatant flirtatious pick-up attempt! She was really interested in me, wasn't she??? I totally blew it.

Man, you should've said "Don't be", grabbed and kissed her with the tongue and all.

 

[Fatality]

So let me get this straight, anytime a girl speaks to me she likes me?

 

[Desdinova]

So let me get this straight, anytime a girl speaks to me she likes me?

Yeah, that's when you grab her t1ts. If she slaps you, she's just using kino.

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

i was thinking wow that sounds cool, going by the title, i wish it would happen to me. But this was not exactly hitting on you, this happens to me twice a week or so.

 

[Interpol]

Wow, by this definition, I get hit on multiple times a day!

 

[JasonR]

a c+f reply would have been easy in that situation.

you could have replied with

"yeah, he did say that, and just to let you know, i am flattered, but you're just not my type"

you deliver that properly and you are in.

 

[B9]

Originally posted by JasonR
a c+f reply would have been easy in that situation.

you could have replied with

"yeah, he did say that, and just to let you know, i am flattered, but you're just not my type"

you deliver that properly and you are in.

hehe, that might just work actually.

 

[Mr. Delicious]

Damnit I missed my opportunity today as well. I was getting lunch and this HB 6.5 that worked there said "do you want fries with that" I panicked and shyly said "no thanks"

 

[MetalFortress]

put this thread out of its misery

 

[Golden Arms]

Originally posted by Fatality
So let me get this straight, anytime a girl speaks to me she likes me?

you - yes. well, they're all members of Mower fan club

 

[B9]

Originally posted by Mr. Delicious
Damnit I missed my opportunity today as well. I was getting lunch and this HB 6.5 that worked there said "do you want fries with that" I panicked and shyly said "no thanks"

that is where you ought to have said 'no but I wanna do you. meet me at the toilets in 5 min.'

you'll get it next time. Snap out of your AFC ways!

 

[evolvingnerd]

hahaha
i enjoyed reading this thread

but in my defence, no girl has ever talked to me out of the blue
usually, if i try to start a convo i get blank stares and few word answers

also, i did have a reason to ignore her...i was scared sh!tless
we were in line to sign in for our scholarship interview, and i was reading over my academic and extra cirricular records, just in case they asked me about it

nevertheless, an opportunity like this will never go to waste on me
the regret is just not worth it

 

[Mr. Delicious]

honestly I do think she was breaking the ice with you and you should have responded better. In my post I wasnt meaning to make fun of your situation, I was just playing along with everyone else