"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Somebody yesterday posted a good opener

speakeasy

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It was really basic, no games, no tricks or bs. I can't remember who it was or the exact wording but it was beautiful in it's simplicity, it was something like "Hi I just saw you from across the room and had to come over and find out..." and can't remember the rest now. If you are the guy that wrote that please finish the sentence.

I'm trying to come up with quick simple openers that could be used in most any situation.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm not a fan of one liners as an opener, but I can give u some casual openers that work well for me. I like to look at what a girl is wearing and comment on that or comment on the situation. Here I'll throw you an example:

I walk by this really hot blonde and she is wearing a coach purse...

Me: That's a really nice Coach purse your wearing
Her: Surprised, so how do you know its Coach
Me: Im into all aspects of fashion jokingly... Whats your name?
Her: Tiffany
Me: Tiffany... Why don't we discuss fashion over some Starbucks but say it in a way where your joking... What's your number...
Her: leaves the digits...
Me: Talk to you later
 

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I'm not a fan of one liners as an opener
There is a huge...almost an infinitely massive huge difference between something that can be expanded into yes, any of a infinite possibility, and a one liner designed to impact.

Hi
Hi, how are you?
Hi, I'd just thought...

Or theres..

Omg, you're so fly, I gonna drag you back to ground, G-Dogg.

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"Hey can I ask you a quick question?"

for girl you are interested in as relationship -> "are you single?"

for girl you want as friend w/ benefits -> "well, its not really a question, but i just wanted to meet you, what's your name?" or something like that, don't have to ask the name

i just came up with the 2nd line and I think now it covers all situations
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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