"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Somebody yesterday posted a good opener

speakeasy

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It was really basic, no games, no tricks or bs. I can't remember who it was or the exact wording but it was beautiful in it's simplicity, it was something like "Hi I just saw you from across the room and had to come over and find out..." and can't remember the rest now. If you are the guy that wrote that please finish the sentence.

I'm trying to come up with quick simple openers that could be used in most any situation.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I'm not a fan of one liners as an opener, but I can give u some casual openers that work well for me. I like to look at what a girl is wearing and comment on that or comment on the situation. Here I'll throw you an example:

I walk by this really hot blonde and she is wearing a coach purse...

Me: That's a really nice Coach purse your wearing
Her: Surprised, so how do you know its Coach
Me: Im into all aspects of fashion jokingly... Whats your name?
Her: Tiffany
Me: Tiffany... Why don't we discuss fashion over some Starbucks but say it in a way where your joking... What's your number...
Her: leaves the digits...
Me: Talk to you later
 

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I'm not a fan of one liners as an opener
There is a huge...almost an infinitely massive huge difference between something that can be expanded into yes, any of a infinite possibility, and a one liner designed to impact.

Hi
Hi, how are you?
Hi, I'd just thought...

Or theres..

Omg, you're so fly, I gonna drag you back to ground, G-Dogg.

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"Hey can I ask you a quick question?"

for girl you are interested in as relationship -> "are you single?"

for girl you want as friend w/ benefits -> "well, its not really a question, but i just wanted to meet you, what's your name?" or something like that, don't have to ask the name

i just came up with the 2nd line and I think now it covers all situations
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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