"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Somebody verbally abuse me.

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I was out with this chick last night, 3rd time hangin with her and we where hangin out for like 4 hours and went out to eat, after eating we got in her car.

Inside the car there was a bag of balloons she had gotten for me (inside joke) wouldn't make sense if I explained. Well we where sitting there about 10:30 at night and we decided to open the bag up and start messing with balloons.

She started hitting me in the head / face with balloons and I started to do the same, we both got very touch feely she grabbed my side and armpit area trying to tickle me I returned the favor, we did this for like 20 minutes. Then people started coming out of the restaurant and we had the balloons in our shirts to make it look like we had big boobs. She decided we had to go somewhere else.....

we ended up behind a borders book store, at 11 pm with nobody around but us all the stores where closed for the night, so here we are alone in her car playing with these balloons touching each other like its our job.....she was letting me touch her face, stomach, thighs and head.


Guess what.




I didn't kiss or anything. :( **** I need help.

If that wasn't her saying make the first kiss....I don't know what is.


She wants to hangout again.

Please, make me feel ultra retarded and boost my motivation.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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True.


But im such a pansy, how do I overcome this first kiss Fright?! I can sit here confident as hell but once in the situation I clam up and can only get so far. :(
 
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I know how you feel, but the hard part is out of the way you know she likes you. Just think, if she didn't WANT you to kiss her she wouldn't be there touching on you. Just make the move, you know she will respond positively.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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movistar said:
I know how you feel, but the hard part is out of the way you know she likes you. Just think, if she didn't WANT you to kiss her she wouldn't be there touching on you. Just make the move, you know she will respond positively.
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This is the motivation im looking for.


Very nice, more more more!!! :rockon:
 
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poor you, you got verbually abused. what in the world are you going to do.

(SARCASM)
 
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COWARD
 
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Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh im so upset with myself.



!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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You have things going for you believe it or not. Tension is building from your inaction... BUT you don't have long before she realizes you can't pull the trigger and moves on to someone who's more of a man than you.

In the middle of a "touchy-feely session"... lean over, brush her hair to the side and hold the side of her head, look her in the eyes deeply, and then lean in and kiss her slowly.

She will respond VERY positively, I guarantee it on my life.
 
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No need for written abuse here, you can find plenty of that in other forums. But you know what you did wrong, and now it's time for you to fix it so you don't feel stupid the next time around.

Now go get it!
 
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I can't wait till my next opportunity.

I'm doing it..

I promise.
 
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Theres nothing to it but the do it.... JUST DO IT..... just make that eye contact, you know the kind that tells her "ok this is serious now, lets kiss".

Do whatever it takes... force yourself to move your hand out to gently raise her chin so shes facing you.. or to brush back her hair and keep your hand on your neck... Its SOOOO simple to communicate thats its time to kiss... You stupid fvcking pvssy... You dont need verbal abuse you silly coward b!tch you need to grow some actual man balls.


justn whatever you do.... Never ask to kiss her.

And get over all this regret/guilty crap. Cause its going to affect when you actually do kiss her. It should be a natural feel good experience... not some geeky boy "i should kiss her, I should kiss her right now... ok shes looking at me.. DO IT.. DO IT NOW, KISS HER!!! OMG! I Did it!!! We are kissing now, oh i hope shes liking this".. haha lame.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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WHAT YOU DID WAS VERY GAY.

Seriously though, what's the worst that can happen? You actually think she's going to slap you in the face and have a surprised look on her face while thinking "Oh my GOD! Why did he just kiss me!?!?!?"

No, I garuntee she won't do that. She will commend you on your bravery, and return the favor (by kissing you back). You just gotta grab your balls and do it man, i've been there before, and it fvcking sucks I know. But if you don't do it, you will lose respect for yourself and so will she, so time is ticking away my friend...
 
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pvf94 said:
I was out with this chick last night, 3rd time hangin with her and we where hangin out for like 4 hours and went out to eat, after eating we got in her car.

Inside the car there was a bag of balloons she had gotten for me (inside joke) wouldn't make sense if I explained. Well we where sitting there about 10:30 at night and we decided to open the bag up and start messing with balloons.

She started hitting me in the head / face with balloons and I started to do the same, we both got very touch feely she grabbed my side and armpit area trying to tickle me I returned the favor, we did this for like 20 minutes. Then people started coming out of the restaurant and we had the balloons in our shirts to make it look like we had big boobs. She decided we had to go somewhere else.....

we ended up behind a borders book store, at 11 pm with nobody around but us all the stores where closed for the night, so here we are alone in her car playing with these balloons touching each other like its our job.....she was letting me touch her face, stomach, thighs and head.


Guess what.




I didn't kiss or anything. :( **** I need help.

If that wasn't her saying make the first kiss....I don't know what is.


She wants to hangout again.

Please, make me feel ultra retarded and boost my motivation.
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Saw the title, was curious, read your story, and now I want you to know something. Normally I never comment on stuff like this and leave to other. But I, someone over the computer who you've never met and probably will never meet, am actually feeling sick from reading that. The girl was given you every green light known to kiss her, and you flaked on it. Now it seems she has given you a second chance, take it, before you end up in the dreaded friend zone. Here's your motivation. Watch what Stewie does to Will Ferrell.
http://www.veoh.com/videos/v870349bpDh2PN4 Now I want you to go hang out with that girl and next time you post how you two made out and had a great time. Otherwise I might be taking a plane, because, "It's not funny!"
Good luck!
 
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Ok, good news we are hanging out again on Monday or Tuesday.

I need a damn good action date, any ideas? We view it as hanging out, but you know what I mean. It's just the 2 of us.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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