"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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NobodyCares1

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I've rarely felt the great mood to pick up girls lately, I used to get it a lot, but I haven't got any action in a month and a half. I've been in the mood from time to time but it was always when I couldn't pick up girls. Today is friday night and I really want to get in the mood fast. So any tips?

Music is usually what got me to the top of the mood, but I need to feel it at least a bit, music is just multiplying the feeling.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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NobodyCares1

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Nevermind, music, reading DJ bible got me there. Also looking into the mirror, but I guess that works only when you're as handsome as I am :D

There are so many hot girls out there, I have to go to get them...
 
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Kratom
Phenibut
A cool non-jealous kid to roll with
Alcohol
Go places you like
Do some online dating to secure some easy dates
Look Hot
might also need to take a look if 'bad state' is related just to pickup or if its a self-esteem thing, ive been on both sides of the issue

NobodyCares- There are so many hot girls out there, I have to go to get them...
true but you only gotta snatch one a day (or one every 1-2weeks), to have a better sex life than 98% of guys on the planet, so no pressure to bag them all as u know

edit: I take it back NO ALCOHOL FOR YOU AT 19 haha
 

NobodyCares1

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good looking loser said:
Kratom
Phenibut
A cool non-jealous kid to roll with
Alcohol
Go places you like
Do some online dating to secure some easy dates
Look Hot
might also need to take a look if 'bad state' is related just to pickup or if its a self-esteem thing, ive been on both sides of the issue


true but you only gotta snatch one a day (or one every 1-2weeks), to have a better sex life than 98% of guys on the planet, so no pressure to bag them all as u know

edit: I take it back NO ALCOHOL FOR YOU AT 19 haha
Online dating isn't really my thing, also it could be a bit of a problem since I live in a small town so not as many people to meet online from my area. I look hot almost always :p A wingman would be great, unfortunately most of the guys I go out with and know aren't good wingmans. I have one friend who is kinda good but he rarely goes out to the town. As for the alcohol, I've drunk it since my 15, I used to drink rarely but last year my drinking got quite intense, I plan on drinking much less from now on. Anyway the legal age to drink alcohol is 18 in my country, so I can drink as much as I want.

I'd say the bad state is more of a self-esteem thing now, the last girl I've been with left me in kind of a mess. Though I know I still have it in me, it's just that there were few good opportunities for the last month, and even when the opportunity was good I either hesitated or was coming on too strong, etc.
 

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Phenibut will do it, its a GABA supplement that actually croses your blood brain barrier. L-dopa also works well but meh you don't need drugs to do it. Just read the uplifting stuff in the bible that stuff gets me ready for a night out
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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