"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Some tips to get in the mood...

NobodyCares1

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I've rarely felt the great mood to pick up girls lately, I used to get it a lot, but I haven't got any action in a month and a half. I've been in the mood from time to time but it was always when I couldn't pick up girls. Today is friday night and I really want to get in the mood fast. So any tips?

Music is usually what got me to the top of the mood, but I need to feel it at least a bit, music is just multiplying the feeling.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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NobodyCares1

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Nevermind, music, reading DJ bible got me there. Also looking into the mirror, but I guess that works only when you're as handsome as I am :D

There are so many hot girls out there, I have to go to get them...
 
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Kratom
Phenibut
A cool non-jealous kid to roll with
Alcohol
Go places you like
Do some online dating to secure some easy dates
Look Hot
might also need to take a look if 'bad state' is related just to pickup or if its a self-esteem thing, ive been on both sides of the issue

NobodyCares- There are so many hot girls out there, I have to go to get them...
true but you only gotta snatch one a day (or one every 1-2weeks), to have a better sex life than 98% of guys on the planet, so no pressure to bag them all as u know

edit: I take it back NO ALCOHOL FOR YOU AT 19 haha
 

NobodyCares1

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good looking loser said:
Kratom
Phenibut
A cool non-jealous kid to roll with
Alcohol
Go places you like
Do some online dating to secure some easy dates
Look Hot
might also need to take a look if 'bad state' is related just to pickup or if its a self-esteem thing, ive been on both sides of the issue


true but you only gotta snatch one a day (or one every 1-2weeks), to have a better sex life than 98% of guys on the planet, so no pressure to bag them all as u know

edit: I take it back NO ALCOHOL FOR YOU AT 19 haha
Online dating isn't really my thing, also it could be a bit of a problem since I live in a small town so not as many people to meet online from my area. I look hot almost always :p A wingman would be great, unfortunately most of the guys I go out with and know aren't good wingmans. I have one friend who is kinda good but he rarely goes out to the town. As for the alcohol, I've drunk it since my 15, I used to drink rarely but last year my drinking got quite intense, I plan on drinking much less from now on. Anyway the legal age to drink alcohol is 18 in my country, so I can drink as much as I want.

I'd say the bad state is more of a self-esteem thing now, the last girl I've been with left me in kind of a mess. Though I know I still have it in me, it's just that there were few good opportunities for the last month, and even when the opportunity was good I either hesitated or was coming on too strong, etc.
 

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Phenibut will do it, its a GABA supplement that actually croses your blood brain barrier. L-dopa also works well but meh you don't need drugs to do it. Just read the uplifting stuff in the bible that stuff gets me ready for a night out
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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