"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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john1234

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For all you guys who know my history. I have realized I must spin plates.

So I met a girl at my work place and we kinda got conversation going. We don't work in the same office/dept but in the same company. So we meet every day were are quite comfortable around each other. It is very early days yet, however some how I ended giving her a lift on my way back and I could feel a very strong tension and I kinda talked it around, when we stopped I could she she was kinda aroused and she got out and left.

The things is how do you guys think I should proceed?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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My advice would be to just practice your conversation skills with the woman from work, and look elsewhere for your plates. A workplace romance has too much unnecessary risk.
 

john1234

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Okay, but it is hard to do. But explain why?

Also do you think she flaked on me? Because yesterday I dropped her near her home (other work place) and today after work she kinda just said ok I'm going off etc not even a mention of enjoy the weekend like normal .I cant read her correctly, but it seems as if she knows I kinda fancy her. Like I mentioned beforehand we don't work in the same department so just see each other..in transitions.

Thanks all for ur previous comments, I value the sensible ones...
 

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I forgot to mention that she asked me to meet her for lunch but I kinda turned up last minute
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Warrior74

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Jobs are for making money.

Obviously you've never been through a false sexual harassment claim. Or had a break up at work and had your bosses and higher ups look at you funny when they hear the gossip about your relationship. What are you at work for? To score poon or to climb the ladder? If you don't give a **** about the ladder or your professional reputation, keep messing around with women at work.
 
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