"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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-Looking back at my relationship with women, I've noticed that im a total perfectionist. I was always looking for the PERFECT MOMENT, THE PERFECT KISS, the perfect everything! I remember I used to make a big deal of like saying that i think she is beautiful, or things like that... it was like THE BIG EVENT! Now, I'm leaving all those things and just saying things, no matter if its not special. Like, for example, asking her to be my girl out of the blue and for no reason... what do u think of this!?
-When I befriend a girl (I mean I "let's-just-be-friends" her), I feel much better (instead of rushing up with "tactics" to get her into bed and to like skip that phase) I no longer feel worried, I feel things fall in their place at their own pace. I think that could be the key for EVERYTHINNG! That theory has so much sense to me, but I feel nobody has ever mentioned it before, so Im afraid I might be wrong. I think that a girlFRIEND is well, a really GOOD friend! Somebody who u share EVERYTHING! someone with who u do everything (including sex!). Think about it! dont u guys think that the characteristic that makes everything fun, exciting and special is that u and her are just really good friends?
what do u think of this?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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You know, one of the reasons i dont date Asian guys very often is because they have been brain washed by bollywood movies, and have this notion of how everything needs to be perfec or romantic, or preplanned. Its good to put thought and effort in occassionally, but sometimes you need to step back and look at the bigger picture, and think about all the little pleasures you may have overlooked trying to make the relationship what you want. Be spontaneous, seize the day. Add a bit of ruggedness in your relationship, it spices things up.
 
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Everyones different and has their own style and I agree with you that somethings fall in place you don't need perfect timing but its till a certain point. As for the girlfriend being a good friend I'm gonna have to disagree. One thing you should never do is form an attachment with a girlfriend or even friends. It leads to a path of self destruction when you become Dependant on them due to the attachments. Its possible to love someone without any attachments. A girlfriend can never be a good friend but a good friend can be a girlfriend but never the other way.
 
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