"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Some test taking help (plz read thx)

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This isn't the most interesting post but plz, i'd appreciate some help.

This site is for picking up women i know, but im sure some of you must be academic superstars and hope can give me some help. This is really troubling me lately

Lately im a little upset. Thing is, for all my math test i only usually manage the second or third highest mark but I JUST KEEP READING QUESTIONS WRONG. And then goes two or three marks and 10-15% of the grade. BUt i look but i always knew how to do the question. ANd that's really upseting. I know im no dumber than the top guy but still, he always beats me cause i read the quesiton WRONG.

HOW do you avoid this. I've tried reading it slow----> doesn't work. Any ideas? Someone must be a math wizard here. Please offer some help.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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someperson1987

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Please i know this isn't the most interesting post. BUt i'd really appreciate some help thx
 

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Well, my friends generally consider me a math wiz, and I also have the same problem sometimes.. If you're already trying to read them carefully and it still happens, I really dont know..


Are you really rushed? Perhaps with more practice you'd be able to do questions faster, leaving more time for reading.. and just a though, perhaps you could make pointform notes summarizing the question and what you have to do for it before beginning, to make sure you understand it.
 

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well no im not rushed i usually finish early BUT STILL HAPPENS lol.

I usually finish in half the time,but still, something always happens even after a third reading.

i seriously need some help on this. My grade is 12% lower than it should be:( (100-stupid mistakes=2nd or 3rd highest mark only)
 

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if you finish and still have half the time left AND make mistake, then you are just basically rushing it. Take your time, read the questions a couple of times.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I think it's just a habit of assuming you know what the question asks.

I think the answer is practice to maintain the right mental agility, and reading the question 2-3 times to make sure you do get it.

When I was studying for the bar, there were several multiple choice questions that I always got wrong because, as far as I could tell, I just made a habit of getting wrong. Disecting them and making sure I knew what was asked was the answer and never assuming I knew what was asked.
 
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