"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Some suggestions on chick conversation?

Maximummax

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Usually while talking or having a conversation with girls
this question usually arises

How was your week end?

Whats the best answer to give them, i know we should tell them something which coveys that we did some thing amazing, whats your prespectives on these guys.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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garruk

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just tell them waht you did? lol.

the fact that you arent confident enough to just tell them what you did is an inherent flaw.

you lack self confidence in yourself without even knowing.

any tool who subscribes to david deangelo emails can fake confidence. pretty much 85% of the guys in my college fraternity were running CF.
 

Aaron B

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if i don't want to answer a question like that, i usually just ask her the same question

most people would prefer to talk about themselves rather than listen to you talk about yourself

most of the time she's not asking because she wants to hear about your weekend

she's asking because she wants to tell you about hers
 
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