"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Some suggestions on chick conversation?

Maximummax

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Usually while talking or having a conversation with girls
this question usually arises

How was your week end?

Whats the best answer to give them, i know we should tell them something which coveys that we did some thing amazing, whats your prespectives on these guys.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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garruk

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just tell them waht you did? lol.

the fact that you arent confident enough to just tell them what you did is an inherent flaw.

you lack self confidence in yourself without even knowing.

any tool who subscribes to david deangelo emails can fake confidence. pretty much 85% of the guys in my college fraternity were running CF.
 

Aaron B

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if i don't want to answer a question like that, i usually just ask her the same question

most people would prefer to talk about themselves rather than listen to you talk about yourself

most of the time she's not asking because she wants to hear about your weekend

she's asking because she wants to tell you about hers
 
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