"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Some situational opener ideas...

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Hey guys, I´d really like some feedback on these:

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"That´s so embarassing, I almost wore the same thing tonight"

"Hey, I decided to come up here and talk to the most beautiful lady in the room * small pause*, so why don´t you introduce me to your friend ;)"

"My girlfriend thinks your hot"

talking to a chick at the bar (I call this reverse gold digger)
"Hey, how about we play a game: You buy me a drink which you think I´d like and I´ll buy you a drink that I think you´d like."
... If she agrees she´ll order a drink for you and then you tell the bartender: "Hey, one glass of water for the lady. Water is still for free right?"

"Can I talk to you for a second I need a female opinion quick. You know, a friend of mine just broke up with his girlfriend. She dumped him because he cut his hair really short. Do you think it´s better for a guy to have long or short hair... . Would you dump a guy for that (qualifying her!)

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walking on the street:

"Hey, do you got the time?"

"Hey, do you know where ... is?"

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clothing store:

"Excuse me, my friends b-day is soon. I need to get her something as a b-day gift. Can you give me a female opinion on what shirt to buy for a girl?"

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bar:

"Hey I saw you from back there and I thought you looked really pretty, so I decided to come up here and talk to you to find out if you were also nice..."

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When you´re sitting next to a chick (this one is a great icebreaker if you do it right)

when she is looking straight ahead you just turn your head into her direction and stare at her (yes, I said stare!). She´ll eventually notice it and she´ll start turning her head into your direction. When she does that you quickly turn your head straight ahead, so it´ll seem like she is staring at you. That´s when you slowly turn your head into her direction and catch her staring at you. Then look directly in her eyes and just give her a wtf look and ask her why she is staring at you. This is a perfect opener for really hot chicks. If you do it right, it´s funny as hell...
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I think especially if you´re buying something it´s best to use the female opinion opener and to always use a time constraint in approaches, so that it takes some pressure from you...

feedback pls...
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

CrunchyNut

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I love the "thats so embarrassing..." one, thats really funny. Ive used something similiar on a really hot girl, she was wearing a really short skirt so i said "hey, did you not have time to put on a skirt before coming out?" It worked, which was a bit of a shock!
 

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Me: If you met someone at a bar.. would you take that person seriously?
HB: Yes, no, blah blah blah..
Me: I don't take you seriously..

Field tested. It's actually on everyone's mind there. They go to meet, but think about if you can really meet someone serious there. So, it's relevant and provocative.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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You guys are so "original"!

WOW!

No wonder you guys have issues getting women interested.
 

ChrizZ

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Latinoman said:
You guys are so "original"!

WOW!

No wonder you guys have issues getting women interested.
then give us some better examples of good openers...:cool:
 
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