"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Some situational opener ideas...

ChrizZ

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Hey guys, I´d really like some feedback on these:

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"That´s so embarassing, I almost wore the same thing tonight"

"Hey, I decided to come up here and talk to the most beautiful lady in the room * small pause*, so why don´t you introduce me to your friend ;)"

"My girlfriend thinks your hot"

talking to a chick at the bar (I call this reverse gold digger)
"Hey, how about we play a game: You buy me a drink which you think I´d like and I´ll buy you a drink that I think you´d like."
... If she agrees she´ll order a drink for you and then you tell the bartender: "Hey, one glass of water for the lady. Water is still for free right?"

"Can I talk to you for a second I need a female opinion quick. You know, a friend of mine just broke up with his girlfriend. She dumped him because he cut his hair really short. Do you think it´s better for a guy to have long or short hair... . Would you dump a guy for that (qualifying her!)

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walking on the street:

"Hey, do you got the time?"

"Hey, do you know where ... is?"

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clothing store:

"Excuse me, my friends b-day is soon. I need to get her something as a b-day gift. Can you give me a female opinion on what shirt to buy for a girl?"

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bar:

"Hey I saw you from back there and I thought you looked really pretty, so I decided to come up here and talk to you to find out if you were also nice..."

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When you´re sitting next to a chick (this one is a great icebreaker if you do it right)

when she is looking straight ahead you just turn your head into her direction and stare at her (yes, I said stare!). She´ll eventually notice it and she´ll start turning her head into your direction. When she does that you quickly turn your head straight ahead, so it´ll seem like she is staring at you. That´s when you slowly turn your head into her direction and catch her staring at you. Then look directly in her eyes and just give her a wtf look and ask her why she is staring at you. This is a perfect opener for really hot chicks. If you do it right, it´s funny as hell...
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I think especially if you´re buying something it´s best to use the female opinion opener and to always use a time constraint in approaches, so that it takes some pressure from you...

feedback pls...
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I love the "thats so embarrassing..." one, thats really funny. Ive used something similiar on a really hot girl, she was wearing a really short skirt so i said "hey, did you not have time to put on a skirt before coming out?" It worked, which was a bit of a shock!
 

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Me: If you met someone at a bar.. would you take that person seriously?
HB: Yes, no, blah blah blah..
Me: I don't take you seriously..

Field tested. It's actually on everyone's mind there. They go to meet, but think about if you can really meet someone serious there. So, it's relevant and provocative.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Latinoman

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You guys are so "original"!

WOW!

No wonder you guys have issues getting women interested.
 

ChrizZ

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Latinoman said:
You guys are so "original"!

WOW!

No wonder you guys have issues getting women interested.
then give us some better examples of good openers...:cool:
 
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