"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Some situational opener ideas...

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Hey guys, I´d really like some feedback on these:

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"That´s so embarassing, I almost wore the same thing tonight"

"Hey, I decided to come up here and talk to the most beautiful lady in the room * small pause*, so why don´t you introduce me to your friend ;)"

"My girlfriend thinks your hot"

talking to a chick at the bar (I call this reverse gold digger)
"Hey, how about we play a game: You buy me a drink which you think I´d like and I´ll buy you a drink that I think you´d like."
... If she agrees she´ll order a drink for you and then you tell the bartender: "Hey, one glass of water for the lady. Water is still for free right?"

"Can I talk to you for a second I need a female opinion quick. You know, a friend of mine just broke up with his girlfriend. She dumped him because he cut his hair really short. Do you think it´s better for a guy to have long or short hair... . Would you dump a guy for that (qualifying her!)

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walking on the street:

"Hey, do you got the time?"

"Hey, do you know where ... is?"

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clothing store:

"Excuse me, my friends b-day is soon. I need to get her something as a b-day gift. Can you give me a female opinion on what shirt to buy for a girl?"

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bar:

"Hey I saw you from back there and I thought you looked really pretty, so I decided to come up here and talk to you to find out if you were also nice..."

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When you´re sitting next to a chick (this one is a great icebreaker if you do it right)

when she is looking straight ahead you just turn your head into her direction and stare at her (yes, I said stare!). She´ll eventually notice it and she´ll start turning her head into your direction. When she does that you quickly turn your head straight ahead, so it´ll seem like she is staring at you. That´s when you slowly turn your head into her direction and catch her staring at you. Then look directly in her eyes and just give her a wtf look and ask her why she is staring at you. This is a perfect opener for really hot chicks. If you do it right, it´s funny as hell...
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I think especially if you´re buying something it´s best to use the female opinion opener and to always use a time constraint in approaches, so that it takes some pressure from you...

feedback pls...
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I love the "thats so embarrassing..." one, thats really funny. Ive used something similiar on a really hot girl, she was wearing a really short skirt so i said "hey, did you not have time to put on a skirt before coming out?" It worked, which was a bit of a shock!
 

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Me: If you met someone at a bar.. would you take that person seriously?
HB: Yes, no, blah blah blah..
Me: I don't take you seriously..

Field tested. It's actually on everyone's mind there. They go to meet, but think about if you can really meet someone serious there. So, it's relevant and provocative.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You guys are so "original"!

WOW!

No wonder you guys have issues getting women interested.
 

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Latinoman said:
You guys are so "original"!

WOW!

No wonder you guys have issues getting women interested.
then give us some better examples of good openers...:cool:
 
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