"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Some quick qs re: bulking/fat/excercises

silverwex

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Hey all, Ill keep this short:

1) Im gaining weight, and fast, but its mostly fat around my stomach area and not much on my arms. Im doing the skinny guy prog, any suggestions to convert that? I wanna get to 180/185lbs before i start cutting (im at 162 now).

2) Whats the BEST forearm excercise?

3) For HIIT, when you deduct about 400cals from your diet, can you take that away from one meal (400cals) or over the course of the 6 meals a day (e.g. take away 70cals per meal), or does it matter?

4) Whats the best way to perform squats without a spotter/power rack?

Thanks
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Jippii

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1) Don't fret about the stomach, that's the best tip I can think of... Just go through with the program.

2) Make sure you're doing dead-lifts and all the other compound movements.
 

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1)you cant convert fat into muscle, but you probably mean u want to gain muscle and not fat by saying that right? If so you might just be eating too much (maybe you are not really a "skinny" guy and thus dont need to eat as much as somebody who is skinny by nature) and thus your gaining bodyfat and on the other hand expect to see results too quickly, because you hear that other guys have gained a high amount of pure muscle in a couple of weeks. (just a guess though)

2)Ive never worked my forearms out particularly, because they do get trained by pretty much all exercises and I couldnt care less about my forearms (as they arent scrawny by nature or something anyways). But you can do wrist curls, they should be effective. Same thing as normal curls but only with a wrist-movement.

3) I have no clue about HIIT but it should definetly not matter in my opinion.

4) ...pretty dangerous with no safety measures... :-/ I dont really get the question though.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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silverwex

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Thanks madgame.

I thought fat converted into muscle when you work it?
 

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Originally posted by silverwex
Thanks madgame.

I thought fat converted into muscle when you work it?
You're doing the skinnyguy program and you ask this question? The reason you're gaining fat is because you didn't read that book. It is one of the best resources I have ever found for getting new bodybuilders informed about their anatomy and nutrition.
 

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I did read it but that was a while ago, why cant u just ans the q instead of flaming?
 

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He wasn't flaming, he was angry because you don't understand the simple basics. Muscle is created from proteins, and logically cannot be "converted from fat."

You get rid of fat (burn it), you build muscle, simple as that.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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