"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Some quick qs re: bulking/fat/excercises

silverwex

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Hey all, Ill keep this short:

1) Im gaining weight, and fast, but its mostly fat around my stomach area and not much on my arms. Im doing the skinny guy prog, any suggestions to convert that? I wanna get to 180/185lbs before i start cutting (im at 162 now).

2) Whats the BEST forearm excercise?

3) For HIIT, when you deduct about 400cals from your diet, can you take that away from one meal (400cals) or over the course of the 6 meals a day (e.g. take away 70cals per meal), or does it matter?

4) Whats the best way to perform squats without a spotter/power rack?

Thanks
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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1) Don't fret about the stomach, that's the best tip I can think of... Just go through with the program.

2) Make sure you're doing dead-lifts and all the other compound movements.
 

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1)you cant convert fat into muscle, but you probably mean u want to gain muscle and not fat by saying that right? If so you might just be eating too much (maybe you are not really a "skinny" guy and thus dont need to eat as much as somebody who is skinny by nature) and thus your gaining bodyfat and on the other hand expect to see results too quickly, because you hear that other guys have gained a high amount of pure muscle in a couple of weeks. (just a guess though)

2)Ive never worked my forearms out particularly, because they do get trained by pretty much all exercises and I couldnt care less about my forearms (as they arent scrawny by nature or something anyways). But you can do wrist curls, they should be effective. Same thing as normal curls but only with a wrist-movement.

3) I have no clue about HIIT but it should definetly not matter in my opinion.

4) ...pretty dangerous with no safety measures... :-/ I dont really get the question though.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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silverwex

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Thanks madgame.

I thought fat converted into muscle when you work it?
 

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Originally posted by silverwex
Thanks madgame.

I thought fat converted into muscle when you work it?
You're doing the skinnyguy program and you ask this question? The reason you're gaining fat is because you didn't read that book. It is one of the best resources I have ever found for getting new bodybuilders informed about their anatomy and nutrition.
 

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I did read it but that was a while ago, why cant u just ans the q instead of flaming?
 

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He wasn't flaming, he was angry because you don't understand the simple basics. Muscle is created from proteins, and logically cannot be "converted from fat."

You get rid of fat (burn it), you build muscle, simple as that.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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