"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Some quick makeout tips...

ChasinReveries

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so u should do open mouthed kisses on teh neck?? should u use tongue at any point to kind of "lick" their neck or play around with the ear...???

can u kinda expand more on exactly what u do with ur mouth and lips on their neck...?? when i kiss girls around their neck and **** i feel like im kissing too softly and i don't know how to make it better without getting kinda "messy"...like i don't hear that noise u hear when u let go of the kiss...im not sure if u know what im talking about...maybe im just thinking about it too much...i haven't really used any of these tips....

has any1 ever had their finger sucked on???? it's a huge turn on, at least for me..
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Teasing a girl with making out is very fun.

When she comes in to kiss you move youre head away. Just look at her lips and her eyes.

I did this and she pulls my head towards her's. Turned me on thats all I know! She also goes "Looks like I've found my match."

Keep it fun and DONT LET WOMEN CONTROL THE SEX!!!
 

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Originally posted by ChasinReveries
so u should do open mouthed kisses on teh neck?? should u use tongue at any point to kind of "lick" their neck or play around with the ear...???

can u kinda expand more on exactly what u do with ur mouth and lips on their neck...?? when i kiss girls around their neck and **** i feel like im kissing too softly and i don't know how to make it better without getting kinda "messy"...like i don't hear that noise u hear when u let go of the kiss...im not sure if u know what im talking about...maybe im just thinking about it too much...i haven't really used any of these tips....

has any1 ever had their finger sucked on???? it's a huge turn on, at least for me..
You can lightly lick her neck. I mean just put the tip of youre tongue on her neck and lick for about half an inch. Then lightly blow on the spot then kiss it right after blowing. Gives the hot and cold effect. That is good to use to try to mix it up alittle while lightly kissing her neck.

Also dont be afriad to get alittle messy when messing around. I guess thats why its called "messing" around. Just take it slow and get really into it. Kiss very slow, it makes it 100x better.

Kiss her neck for alittle then start making out with her again.
 

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you fogot sucking on her tounge. i have never done it, or even made out before, but i have heard its tons of fun
 

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Bump

I was reading through some old threads and i think that this one deffinatelly deserves a Bump;)


Luscious: nice thread, and good tips. :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I hadn't seen this, it is marvelous, mods should make it a sticky.
 

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Originally posted by SamePendo
I hadn't seen this, it is marvelous, mods should make it a sticky.
Sticky? Nah.

Bible? Perhaps.
 

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WTF is the girl supposed to be doing with her head while your busy kissing her neck or whatever?
 

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haha

Originally posted by Mustang05
WTF is the girl supposed to be doing with her head while your busy kissing her neck or whatever?
She is meant to be relaxing and enjoying the experiance, try it and see, i garantee you that she wont be complaining!;)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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VERY good read for everyone who wants to be good with girls...

I give this thread 5 stars... I've done this stuff with all the girls myself..
 

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Originally posted by Luscious
Go for the ear!
This one usually gets them going pretty good...when you're at her neck, kiss along her jawline, and work your way up to her ear. I like to take the lower part of her ear (where most girls have piercings) and take it into my mouth, run my tongue over it, suck on it (GENTLY)...I've had a girl do this to me, too, and YES, it feels great. To change things up a bit, VERY GENTLY bite her ear, (no Mike Tyson bull****!) this usually gets a nice reaction.

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Excellent thread, and this is the only tip I take issue with. Apparently a girl's ear isn't as sensitive as a guys is. Ours are loaded with receptors, where a girls is a barren wasteland. While her tugging or breathing into your ear might have you cringing with pleasure, the same technique on her is going to cause her to wonder when the hell you'll stop. A good rule to live by when making out with a girl is "stay away from the ears".
 

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Originally posted by diablo
Excellent thread, and this is the only tip I take issue with. Apparently a girl's ear isn't as sensitive as a guys is. Ours are loaded with receptors, where a girls is a barren wasteland. While her tugging or breathing into your ear might have you cringing with pleasure, the same technique on her is going to cause her to wonder when the hell you'll stop. A good rule to live by when making out with a girl is "stay away from the ears".
I found that with most of the chicks that i was with they actually enjoyed this... but you are might be right about that because some of them didnt really respond to it and just found it a little tickelish or something... so ya.. i geuss it also depends on the girl. ;)
 

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ATTENTION MODERATORS!





PLZ DO NOT LET THIS THREAD DIE..... PRESERVE IT SOMEHOW LIKE IN THE ARCHIVE OR SOMETHING. THIS IS VERY USEFUL INFORMATION
 

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DO NOT suck on her neck, as it will leave a mark, and her parents might see (trust me on this one, the results ain't good...).
Hehe.

There has been times a girl does a mark to my neck.
And I've revenged it by taking really quick action by making a mark on her FOREHEAD! That'll teach the b!tch!
It's good if you pull it right and the girl has good humor. I've always laughed about it later with the girl I've done it :D
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by diablo
Excellent thread, and this is the only tip I take issue with. Apparently a girl's ear isn't as sensitive as a guys is. Ours are loaded with receptors, where a girls is a barren wasteland. While her tugging or breathing into your ear might have you cringing with pleasure, the same technique on her is going to cause her to wonder when the hell you'll stop. A good rule to live by when making out with a girl is "stay away from the ears".
WTF???

I've always found ears really sensitive and good to go with girls!

I think it depends on the case.


With one girl we used to moan/whisper "AAAAAHHHHHH", "OOOOOHHH" right to each others ear with hot breath flowing on and in the ear....
She was the one who initiated it. Daaaaaymmmm it was HOT!
It was like I got instant boner when she did that even one time.
Sigh... good times.
 

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Why would a girl's ear be that different from ours?
i know when a girl shoved her tounge down my ear i was like "dammnnn.."

I know it might sound a little weird, but try it, it gets girls turned on big time.
 

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This is great stuff, and most of it I already knew from my first girlfriend. She told me what she liked and we'd experiment. I learned a lot from her. I really wanna get back out there and use this ****. Great post, BUMP!
 

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When your done kissing/making out on them on the neck.. ears... collarbone... etc.. whatever.. do you expect them to reciprocate the same kissing to you and have them take their turn? Or is the guy supposed to be the one doing that kind of kissing?
 

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there are no freak'n rules man. lighten up. if you want her to do it to you, then get her to do it. Tell her she has to "earn" this by doing "This"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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