"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Some Questions

Diaoz

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I've got some questions that I'd like to hear your input. Most answers are probably correct as it depends alot of the girl(s) but yeah, just wanna see what's the DJ way to do it.

Situtation 1a:
Friend of chick you're dating flirts with you in front of her.

Situtation 1b:
Friend of chick you're dating flirts with you BEHIND her(test?)

Situtation 2:
Guy hits on your girl while you're on a date. Do you sit back, watch the show(showing your confidence) or do you go up and be macho(any good lines to say?)

Thks.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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about situation 1, never flirt behind your date's back, she will think your cheating her, you can flirt very lightly infront of her, but try to just keep it more like small talk, do not hit on another girl infront of your date and do not do ti for long otherwise she will feel out of place.

about situation 2, walk up to the guy and point out to him you are not happy with what hes doing, you have to tell him thta infornt of your date, nenver just sit back and watch. say in a serious tone somtinhg like, i dont like other guys hitting on my date in front of me. (in this situation always make sure you come out as the alpha male, after tlaking to the guy aobut it, just lead your girl off) if she was fliritng back or what ever, with him, you got sme issues with her and it could be time to find yourself a new girl!

hope iv been a help
 

Diaoz

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thks for the input. Regarding situtation 1, I was talking more about their friend flirting with you. Do you just give some small talk and try to get off? As for 2, yeah I think confronting the bloke's a better idea but any C+F lines? Another problem would be if there's like a bunch of blurly guys with him :p
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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yeh well if her freinds flirt with you, its exactly the same, if its behind her back then ignore them, if its infront of her, only do it lightly. about situation 2, its a serious matter so you do not want to turn it in to a laugh, inless its an insult type line thats at the expence of the other guy, i cant tihnk of an example right now and obviously if you think they will beat you up, then use your commen sense and stay out of it!!!
 
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