"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I've got some questions that I'd like to hear your input. Most answers are probably correct as it depends alot of the girl(s) but yeah, just wanna see what's the DJ way to do it.

Situtation 1a:
Friend of chick you're dating flirts with you in front of her.

Situtation 1b:
Friend of chick you're dating flirts with you BEHIND her(test?)

Situtation 2:
Guy hits on your girl while you're on a date. Do you sit back, watch the show(showing your confidence) or do you go up and be macho(any good lines to say?)

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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about situation 1, never flirt behind your date's back, she will think your cheating her, you can flirt very lightly infront of her, but try to just keep it more like small talk, do not hit on another girl infront of your date and do not do ti for long otherwise she will feel out of place.

about situation 2, walk up to the guy and point out to him you are not happy with what hes doing, you have to tell him thta infornt of your date, nenver just sit back and watch. say in a serious tone somtinhg like, i dont like other guys hitting on my date in front of me. (in this situation always make sure you come out as the alpha male, after tlaking to the guy aobut it, just lead your girl off) if she was fliritng back or what ever, with him, you got sme issues with her and it could be time to find yourself a new girl!

hope iv been a help
 
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thks for the input. Regarding situtation 1, I was talking more about their friend flirting with you. Do you just give some small talk and try to get off? As for 2, yeah I think confronting the bloke's a better idea but any C+F lines? Another problem would be if there's like a bunch of blurly guys with him :p
 
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yeh well if her freinds flirt with you, its exactly the same, if its behind her back then ignore them, if its infront of her, only do it lightly. about situation 2, its a serious matter so you do not want to turn it in to a laugh, inless its an insult type line thats at the expence of the other guy, i cant tihnk of an example right now and obviously if you think they will beat you up, then use your commen sense and stay out of it!!!
 
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