"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Well,what is the key? Confidence? Personality? Enthusiasm? Skills? Extra Effort? Looks? Status? Strong Identity? How much game you have? How do you build game? I have read alot on here,yet,I do not apply it. I feel a lack of game,possible personality lacking,and dominance may be biggest things bothering me.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I don't know. It might be ocd.I have this tendency to keep repeating things over and over in my head. Alot of my problems stem from inner stuff.
 
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ItsOnNow said:
Well,what is the key? Confidence? Personality? Enthusiasm? Skills? Extra Effort? Looks? Status? Strong Identity? How much game you have? How do you build game? I have read alot on here,yet,I do not apply it. I feel a lack of game,possible personality lacking,and dominance may be biggest things bothering me.
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You have a full set of hair?
You have height?
You have earning potential?
You can make a women feel safe?

You are in if you answer yes to those.
 
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Yes I have hair and height. I dont know about the earning potential thing. I think I can make a woman feel safe,yet I don't know all the ways.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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