"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Well,what is the key? Confidence? Personality? Enthusiasm? Skills? Extra Effort? Looks? Status? Strong Identity? How much game you have? How do you build game? I have read alot on here,yet,I do not apply it. I feel a lack of game,possible personality lacking,and dominance may be biggest things bothering me.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I don't know. It might be ocd.I have this tendency to keep repeating things over and over in my head. Alot of my problems stem from inner stuff.
 
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ItsOnNow said:
Well,what is the key? Confidence? Personality? Enthusiasm? Skills? Extra Effort? Looks? Status? Strong Identity? How much game you have? How do you build game? I have read alot on here,yet,I do not apply it. I feel a lack of game,possible personality lacking,and dominance may be biggest things bothering me.
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You have a full set of hair?
You have height?
You have earning potential?
You can make a women feel safe?

You are in if you answer yes to those.
 
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Yes I have hair and height. I dont know about the earning potential thing. I think I can make a woman feel safe,yet I don't know all the ways.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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