"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Some questions before I start my 'approach' career

brasilisheaven

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 14, 2013
Messages
13
Reaction score
1
I have a co-worker I like she laughs to me when she sees me and I approached her once for a small talk :up:

She was fun to talk to but no major signs that she was very interested.

Problem is, if i ask her out or ask for her number after another chat she could refuse and tell her 'team' what I did, I work with her department sometimes so it could be awkward if I did. What would you advice me to do here? Just build more rapport and talk to her and check upon her signs or just go for it next time I see her or anything else?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

GearsGod

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 28, 2012
Messages
21
Reaction score
1
Try talking to her more often dude, make small talk.. ask her stuff like, what she likes or what she enjoys doing for fun when she isn't working.. make her laugh when you talk to her... Just don't try talking to her 24/7 or you will come of as creepy, needy, and annoying. Looks for signs of interest... How long have you known her? Ask for her number man, being rejected is better than having regret.. if she gives it to you call her up a day later or so and ask her if she wants to get something before work like a coffee.. and start building from there. Go for it dude!
 

Maximus Rex

Banned
Joined
Apr 8, 2005
Messages
2,265
Reaction score
446
Location
Villa Regis
brasilisheaven said:
I have a co-worker......
Stopped reading after^^^^^. Don't sarge your co-workers. Like the name of dating website there's plenty of other fish in the sea.
 
Top