"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Some questions before I start my 'approach' career

brasilisheaven

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I have a co-worker I like she laughs to me when she sees me and I approached her once for a small talk :up:

She was fun to talk to but no major signs that she was very interested.

Problem is, if i ask her out or ask for her number after another chat she could refuse and tell her 'team' what I did, I work with her department sometimes so it could be awkward if I did. What would you advice me to do here? Just build more rapport and talk to her and check upon her signs or just go for it next time I see her or anything else?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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GearsGod

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Try talking to her more often dude, make small talk.. ask her stuff like, what she likes or what she enjoys doing for fun when she isn't working.. make her laugh when you talk to her... Just don't try talking to her 24/7 or you will come of as creepy, needy, and annoying. Looks for signs of interest... How long have you known her? Ask for her number man, being rejected is better than having regret.. if she gives it to you call her up a day later or so and ask her if she wants to get something before work like a coffee.. and start building from there. Go for it dude!
 

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brasilisheaven said:
I have a co-worker......
Stopped reading after^^^^^. Don't sarge your co-workers. Like the name of dating website there's plenty of other fish in the sea.
 
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