"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Some past issues? Experienced men only pls.

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You little kids have yet to realize that you are dealing with hors and not women -- this is your downfall!!! You get what you deserve!!!!!!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Last Man Standing said:
You little kids have yet to realize that you are dealing with hors and not women -- this is your downfall!!! You get what you deserve!!!!!!

Wonderful attitude :moon:

Someone spike your Geritol smoothie?
 

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One thing I see here is that many men have not reached the level of loosing the bitterness towards women yet...

A woman who is taking what she wants and satisfying her needs is not a whr, she is the woman counterpart of what you want to be yourself... And from my experience, this kind of woman will be more choosy than 99% of the "playaz"...

It is not in what she does it is how she does it.

The woman, if she looses her choosing, then I would call her a whr, not when she is the one setting up the rules and deciding on the game.

the guy in question is her best friend, like a brother to her, a bit on the feminine side, so I have no issues with that.

there is one reply for which I thank, and it is the one about honesty, when you do not have to play games, and being honest is your strength.

Yes, I was asking a question for which I knew the answer, I just wanted to get a more mature man's opinion, in order to grow.
 

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the guy in question is her best friend, like a brother to her, a bit on the feminine side, so I have no issues with that.
Most Western Europeans (and I know this is a generalization and stereotype as all are not like that), tend to be a bit on the feminine side by U.S.A. and Latino standards.

Anyway, you asked for advice. We gave it to you.

If you are looking for "reasurance", then you are in the wrong place.
 
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