"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Some past issues? Experienced men only pls.

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You little kids have yet to realize that you are dealing with hors and not women -- this is your downfall!!! You get what you deserve!!!!!!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Last Man Standing said:
You little kids have yet to realize that you are dealing with hors and not women -- this is your downfall!!! You get what you deserve!!!!!!

Wonderful attitude :moon:

Someone spike your Geritol smoothie?
 

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One thing I see here is that many men have not reached the level of loosing the bitterness towards women yet...

A woman who is taking what she wants and satisfying her needs is not a whr, she is the woman counterpart of what you want to be yourself... And from my experience, this kind of woman will be more choosy than 99% of the "playaz"...

It is not in what she does it is how she does it.

The woman, if she looses her choosing, then I would call her a whr, not when she is the one setting up the rules and deciding on the game.

the guy in question is her best friend, like a brother to her, a bit on the feminine side, so I have no issues with that.

there is one reply for which I thank, and it is the one about honesty, when you do not have to play games, and being honest is your strength.

Yes, I was asking a question for which I knew the answer, I just wanted to get a more mature man's opinion, in order to grow.
 

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the guy in question is her best friend, like a brother to her, a bit on the feminine side, so I have no issues with that.
Most Western Europeans (and I know this is a generalization and stereotype as all are not like that), tend to be a bit on the feminine side by U.S.A. and Latino standards.

Anyway, you asked for advice. We gave it to you.

If you are looking for "reasurance", then you are in the wrong place.
 
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