"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Some of this stuff becomes natural after a while...

DonJuan11

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ChrizZ said:
What you have to do when women treat you like this is to tell her to shut the fvck up and then take her doggystyle.

I have a few times...not doggystyle though. But they have all said "stop, lets take a break, its too much"

Yeah...and women like sex as much as we do.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DonJuan11 said:
Yeah...and women like sex as much as we do.
I don't believe they do. A woman can get laid very easily if she's average or above, yet a lot of women don't have sex for extended periods despite it being on a plate for them. They are picky and pedestalised and it seems like no sex is better than sexing a guy who is a 7 if they feel they deserve an 8. I guess there's the slut factor, but what's with LMR in a 1-on-1 situation and if they meet a guy in a cold approach who doesn't know her mates then she would do anything with him if she really wanted sex.

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Mad Manic said:
I don't believe they do. A woman can get laid very easily if she's average or above, yet a lot of women don't have sex for extended periods despite it being on a plate for them. They are picky and pedestalised and it seems like no sex is better than sexing a guy who is a 7 if they feel they deserve an 8. I guess there's the slut factor, but what's with LMR in a 1-on-1 situation and if they meet a guy in a cold approach who doesn't know her mates then she would do anything with him if she really wanted sex.

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I agree with you.

I was trying to be sarcastic
 

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DonJuan11 said:
I agree with you.

I was trying to be sarcastic
Yes I know you was I was just commenting on it, I personally believe it's a white lie banded about to get nice guys to be more bold in escalating.
 

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Ive been working this DJ stuff for about 4-6 months, and its true!: IT COMES TO HAPEN NATURAL.
Of course, my dramaticall change goes from:
Not aproaching any girl to
Flirting, and apllying C&F and KINO and feling confortable with it.
Theres a lot to learn!

And BTW:
"build it and they will come" so true:
- Build your confidence and sexuality
- Build your looks and body
- Build your fun and happines with life

And they will come !
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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