"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Some of this stuff becomes natural after a while...

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What you have to do when women treat you like this is to tell her to shut the fvck up and then take her doggystyle.
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I have a few times...not doggystyle though. But they have all said "stop, lets take a break, its too much"

Yeah...and women like sex as much as we do.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DonJuan11 said:
Yeah...and women like sex as much as we do.
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I don't believe they do. A woman can get laid very easily if she's average or above, yet a lot of women don't have sex for extended periods despite it being on a plate for them. They are picky and pedestalised and it seems like no sex is better than sexing a guy who is a 7 if they feel they deserve an 8. I guess there's the slut factor, but what's with LMR in a 1-on-1 situation and if they meet a guy in a cold approach who doesn't know her mates then she would do anything with him if she really wanted sex.

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Mad Manic said:
I don't believe they do. A woman can get laid very easily if she's average or above, yet a lot of women don't have sex for extended periods despite it being on a plate for them. They are picky and pedestalised and it seems like no sex is better than sexing a guy who is a 7 if they feel they deserve an 8. I guess there's the slut factor, but what's with LMR in a 1-on-1 situation and if they meet a guy in a cold approach who doesn't know her mates then she would do anything with him if she really wanted sex.

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I agree with you.

I was trying to be sarcastic
 
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I agree with you.

I was trying to be sarcastic
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Yes I know you was I was just commenting on it, I personally believe it's a white lie banded about to get nice guys to be more bold in escalating.
 
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Ive been working this DJ stuff for about 4-6 months, and its true!: IT COMES TO HAPEN NATURAL.
Of course, my dramaticall change goes from:
Not aproaching any girl to
Flirting, and apllying C&F and KINO and feling confortable with it.
Theres a lot to learn!

And BTW:
"build it and they will come" so true:
- Build your confidence and sexuality
- Build your looks and body
- Build your fun and happines with life

And they will come !
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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