Some of the smoothest guys I know are nice

[Obey Propaganda]

Anyone else notice this? They're not the ****y type, they're mostly the smooth talking nice guys that get in the girls pants. That's just what I've noticed. The "C&F" seems to be an internet thing.

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Everything you learn on here about.. Dont be a nice guy, Learn how to be a jerk and ect. There is a balance to all of this. You can be nice and friendly and ****y. There is just a balance to it to become the "Good guy".

 

[Lexington]

People aren't saying be mean to a girl, in fact you can be nice. But what most people are referring to when they talk about "nice guys" are desperate guys. These guys are needy and clingy and almost immediately demonstrate low value to her.

It's possible to be nice and still get laid like a rock star. But that's not the kind of nice guy that people are usually referring to here.

And you can actually be ****y and funny and very nice at the same time. Remember, you're busting her balls in a friendly way and keeping her laughing and interested in you while at the same time doing nice things for her. Like you could constantly be busting her balls and getting her laughing but at the same time holding doors open for her, taking her coat etc.

 

[Alle_Gory]

There's friendly and masculine, and then there's 'nice guys'.

Not the same thing.

 

[Maxtro]

There is a difference between being nice and being a wuss. Also you can be a nice guy and still be a little mean.