"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Some of the smoothest guys I know are nice

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Anyone else notice this? They're not the ****y type, they're mostly the smooth talking nice guys that get in the girls pants. That's just what I've noticed. The "C&F" seems to be an internet thing.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Everything you learn on here about.. Dont be a nice guy, Learn how to be a jerk and ect. There is a balance to all of this. You can be nice and friendly and ****y. There is just a balance to it to become the "Good guy".
 
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People aren't saying be mean to a girl, in fact you can be nice. But what most people are referring to when they talk about "nice guys" are desperate guys. These guys are needy and clingy and almost immediately demonstrate low value to her.

It's possible to be nice and still get laid like a rock star. But that's not the kind of nice guy that people are usually referring to here.

And you can actually be ****y and funny and very nice at the same time. Remember, you're busting her balls in a friendly way and keeping her laughing and interested in you while at the same time doing nice things for her. Like you could constantly be busting her balls and getting her laughing but at the same time holding doors open for her, taking her coat etc.
 
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There's friendly and masculine, and then there's 'nice guys'.

Not the same thing.
 
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There is a difference between being nice and being a wuss. Also you can be a nice guy and still be a little mean.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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