"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Some of The Questions on Here...

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Is it ok if I take my GF here? Would it be beta if I did this or that? Ect...

My first reaction to these kinds of questions is...



Who gives a ****???


Stop asking for permission about every little thing you do with your girl, and just ****ing do it. It doesn't matter in the long run and nobody ****ing cares. It's like a lot these guys need someone to hold their hand to walk across ******* Boulevard.

Are guys really so scared of screwing it up with one dumb ***** or looking beta in front of others? It's fvcking nonsense and it's gotta stop. It's not that hard to make small decisions and stick with them. I do tonnes of stuff that others won't think is Alpha. My username comes from an Anime for fvcks sakes and you know what? I don't give a ****, because I like comic books/anime and anyone who doesn't can just **** off.

Quit worrying about every damn little thing and just go for it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SharinganUser said:
Is it ok if I take my GF here? Would it be beta if I did this or that? Ect...

My first reaction to these kinds of questions is...



Who gives a ****???


Stop asking for permission about every little thing you do with your girl, and just ****ing do it. It doesn't matter in the long run and nobody ****ing cares. It's like a lot these guys need someone to hold their hand to walk across ******* Boulevard.

Are guys really so scared of screwing it up with one dumb ***** or looking beta in front of others? It's fvcking nonsense and it's gotta stop. It's not that hard to make small decisions and stick with them. I do tonnes of stuff that others won't think is Alpha. My username comes from an Anime for fvcks sakes and you know what? I don't give a ****, because I like comic books/anime and anyone who doesn't can just **** off.

Quit worrying about every damn little thing and just go for it.
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Is it ok if I let chicks know I have a profile on So Suave?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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there's a black girl I like at school but I'm asian... do I have a chance?
 
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Guys generally come here because what they've learned and always believed all their lives about women is not working for them and they recognize that. They come to the conclusion that they need to completely "retool", and hence the basic questions.

There will always be newbies here asking these questions, and I personally would rather help them and steer them in the right direction than to berate them.

Nothing against you, OP (I figure you're reacting to some recent posts). I just see this place as a launching pad for the recovering AFC and a place to learn to better their lives.
 
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