"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Some of The Questions on Here...

SharinganUser

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Is it ok if I take my GF here? Would it be beta if I did this or that? Ect...

My first reaction to these kinds of questions is...



Who gives a ****???


Stop asking for permission about every little thing you do with your girl, and just ****ing do it. It doesn't matter in the long run and nobody ****ing cares. It's like a lot these guys need someone to hold their hand to walk across ******* Boulevard.

Are guys really so scared of screwing it up with one dumb ***** or looking beta in front of others? It's fvcking nonsense and it's gotta stop. It's not that hard to make small decisions and stick with them. I do tonnes of stuff that others won't think is Alpha. My username comes from an Anime for fvcks sakes and you know what? I don't give a ****, because I like comic books/anime and anyone who doesn't can just **** off.

Quit worrying about every damn little thing and just go for it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Naughty Ninja

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SharinganUser said:
Is it ok if I take my GF here? Would it be beta if I did this or that? Ect...

My first reaction to these kinds of questions is...



Who gives a ****???


Stop asking for permission about every little thing you do with your girl, and just ****ing do it. It doesn't matter in the long run and nobody ****ing cares. It's like a lot these guys need someone to hold their hand to walk across ******* Boulevard.

Are guys really so scared of screwing it up with one dumb ***** or looking beta in front of others? It's fvcking nonsense and it's gotta stop. It's not that hard to make small decisions and stick with them. I do tonnes of stuff that others won't think is Alpha. My username comes from an Anime for fvcks sakes and you know what? I don't give a ****, because I like comic books/anime and anyone who doesn't can just **** off.

Quit worrying about every damn little thing and just go for it.

Is it ok if I let chicks know I have a profile on So Suave?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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juicywa

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there's a black girl I like at school but I'm asian... do I have a chance?
 

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Guys generally come here because what they've learned and always believed all their lives about women is not working for them and they recognize that. They come to the conclusion that they need to completely "retool", and hence the basic questions.

There will always be newbies here asking these questions, and I personally would rather help them and steer them in the right direction than to berate them.

Nothing against you, OP (I figure you're reacting to some recent posts). I just see this place as a launching pad for the recovering AFC and a place to learn to better their lives.
 
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