"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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some little b!tch kid buying my girl flowers and other faggy stuff

powpow

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I think this little b!tch chinese kid likes my girlfriend.

he bought her flowers and made her a boxed lunch.

should I go over and slap the sh!t out of this kid? or should I just let it go because I'm getting bl0wjobs and he's buying my chick flowers.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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PapiChulo

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I am surprised you have to ask this question. I guess you feel somehow insecure or threatened by the kid? That's exactly how she is gonna interpret it. Also if she continues to accept or encourage this kind of attention from other men is a sign of disrespect.
 

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PapiChulo said:
I am surprised you have to ask this question. I guess you feel somehow insecure or threatened by the kid? That's exactly how she is gonna interpret it. Also if she continues to accept or encourage this kind of attention from other men is a sign of disrespect.
absolutely!

also, attract some female attention and subtely make her aware of it, see how that floats. I dont understand guys whose first reaction is violence towards another guy who shows attraction towards his girl, what exactly has he done wrong? it is up to her to put him in his place. you will never know how often your girl gets hit on. get used to it, you reacting with violence or aggression or, behaving like a B!tch, gives her a lot of power
 

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I don't feel threatened. I feel disrespected. I suppose all threats are disrespect but not all disrespects are threatening.

this case is just disrespect. in my circles, we don't tolerate that. someone disrespects you like that, you punish them.

but not all people understand what my friends and I value. so punishing this kid would seem a little hostile. and insecure looking.

so its wrong for her to accept the gifts? man. Ive had this chick for like 4 days and I think I don't like relationships. problems.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Who Dares Win

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Tell your girlfriend to tell him that she is very hungry and to bring more, so next time you're at home you wont need to order a pizza before going out.

Seriously as a man I understand you, you would just like to go to the kid break all his bones and make it clear that he is looking at your territory, its perfectly fine man, thats how it has been from the stone age.

However now we cannot do that anymore due to changes in society and law, most of all now your girlfriend has a say awfully, so in many cases you cannot face problems the straight way but you have to do it the clever one, even if more demanding to your head and your patiente.

So make fun of the kid with her, amplify the fact that you now have a contender and laught about it, tell her that you are envious that you also want some shy kid to buy you presents and her how she did it.

And when you get tired of it, just make sure the kid see you making out and touching her so you mark your territory and make it clear that his sweet princess is not princess but a woman.
 

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Do you think the kid will succeed in stealing your girlfriend with these ***** ass moves? No, just laugh it off with her and gauge her reaction towards him, this is the best thing to do.
Definitely don't use violence on the kid, he's probably resorting to these moves just because he's too AFC to do anything else, plus it'll only push your gf away from you or make her think she's got you wrapped round her finger.
 

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powpow said:
this case is just disrespect. in my circles, we don't tolerate that. someone disrespects you like that, you punish them.
The only person disrespecting you is the girl for not telling him thanks but no thanks. The poor herb beta gaming your girl is irrelevant.

You might play it off as him disrespecting you but it sounds more like a "lets you and him fight" type of scenario which went out with the Bee Gees, or more accurately when the majority of Western women were no longer worth fighting for.

Unless this girl is somewhere close to this (give or take) then we no longer duel other men for her honour. Kapeesh?
 

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You had a GF for 4 days? News flash: she ain't your GF. She's a stranger who you just started to get to know.

Read up on Anti-Dump Machine.
 
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