"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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some little b!tch kid buying my girl flowers and other faggy stuff

powpow

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I think this little b!tch chinese kid likes my girlfriend.

he bought her flowers and made her a boxed lunch.

should I go over and slap the sh!t out of this kid? or should I just let it go because I'm getting bl0wjobs and he's buying my chick flowers.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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PapiChulo

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I am surprised you have to ask this question. I guess you feel somehow insecure or threatened by the kid? That's exactly how she is gonna interpret it. Also if she continues to accept or encourage this kind of attention from other men is a sign of disrespect.
 

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PapiChulo said:
I am surprised you have to ask this question. I guess you feel somehow insecure or threatened by the kid? That's exactly how she is gonna interpret it. Also if she continues to accept or encourage this kind of attention from other men is a sign of disrespect.
absolutely!

also, attract some female attention and subtely make her aware of it, see how that floats. I dont understand guys whose first reaction is violence towards another guy who shows attraction towards his girl, what exactly has he done wrong? it is up to her to put him in his place. you will never know how often your girl gets hit on. get used to it, you reacting with violence or aggression or, behaving like a B!tch, gives her a lot of power
 

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I don't feel threatened. I feel disrespected. I suppose all threats are disrespect but not all disrespects are threatening.

this case is just disrespect. in my circles, we don't tolerate that. someone disrespects you like that, you punish them.

but not all people understand what my friends and I value. so punishing this kid would seem a little hostile. and insecure looking.

so its wrong for her to accept the gifts? man. Ive had this chick for like 4 days and I think I don't like relationships. problems.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Who Dares Win

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Tell your girlfriend to tell him that she is very hungry and to bring more, so next time you're at home you wont need to order a pizza before going out.

Seriously as a man I understand you, you would just like to go to the kid break all his bones and make it clear that he is looking at your territory, its perfectly fine man, thats how it has been from the stone age.

However now we cannot do that anymore due to changes in society and law, most of all now your girlfriend has a say awfully, so in many cases you cannot face problems the straight way but you have to do it the clever one, even if more demanding to your head and your patiente.

So make fun of the kid with her, amplify the fact that you now have a contender and laught about it, tell her that you are envious that you also want some shy kid to buy you presents and her how she did it.

And when you get tired of it, just make sure the kid see you making out and touching her so you mark your territory and make it clear that his sweet princess is not princess but a woman.
 

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Do you think the kid will succeed in stealing your girlfriend with these ***** ass moves? No, just laugh it off with her and gauge her reaction towards him, this is the best thing to do.
Definitely don't use violence on the kid, he's probably resorting to these moves just because he's too AFC to do anything else, plus it'll only push your gf away from you or make her think she's got you wrapped round her finger.
 

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powpow said:
this case is just disrespect. in my circles, we don't tolerate that. someone disrespects you like that, you punish them.
The only person disrespecting you is the girl for not telling him thanks but no thanks. The poor herb beta gaming your girl is irrelevant.

You might play it off as him disrespecting you but it sounds more like a "lets you and him fight" type of scenario which went out with the Bee Gees, or more accurately when the majority of Western women were no longer worth fighting for.

Unless this girl is somewhere close to this (give or take) then we no longer duel other men for her honour. Kapeesh?
 

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You had a GF for 4 days? News flash: she ain't your GF. She's a stranger who you just started to get to know.

Read up on Anti-Dump Machine.
 
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